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Back in 2006, My journey took me to Canberra for an interview at a medical college. My plan was to arrange accommodation upon arrival, but upon reaching the city, a large conference was happening and every single youth hostels and cheap hotels had no vacancies.

As a visitor from the city-state of Singapore, the idea crossed my mind perhaps I could just sleep at the terminal – but soon learned Canberra airport, in contrast to Changi Airport, closes 24 hours. Unsure of what my next move should be and getting a bit desperate, I caught a bus into town and started wandering towards the casino, thinking I could pass those hours somewhere operating through the night. That wouldn’t put me in the best shape for nailing the admissions interview the next day, but as a cash-strapped student, luxury accommodation was impossible.

We could all use more people like that woman.

Apparently, I appeared out of place since a female student saw me walking aimlessly through the city and inquired if everything was alright. I shared my situation and without hesitation she suggested I could crash on the floor of her dormitory at ANU – an ideal turn of events, given that my the important interview was scheduled for the next day. She went further by offering some food: one filled rolls she brought back her part-time job. I had access to the bathroom and a secure location to rest to spend the night.

In retrospect, I can appreciate the enormous leap of faith she accepted as a woman letting a man she’d just met crash at her place. In those days I operated under my own unawareness and was oblivious to the potential danger. Today, as a parent, I’m amazed she offered that help – and remain deeply appreciative.

I never did study at ANU, and I didn’t meet that kind stranger again, but I’ve never forgotten that incredible gesture of kindness. It is my wish karma has repaid her good deed many times over. The world needs more folks who show such kindness.